Wednesday, September 16, 2009

Problems shows your real strength . i mean it !!!

frns ma blog may confuse ppl . but one thing is sure and tht is nothing but the value of true frns . also d will power n determination 2 be possessed during crisis.ya comin 2 d point, thr s a gr8 turning pt in ma life. it was during ma third year of col lyf .my engineer course of tym tht was.



A gr8 shock n suppressed thing for nithya whenever she even thinks of it.
Not even jus 2 weeks got completed after buyin a laptop ,wow tht was Lenovo costing 32k,i dropped d same on driving tonite of our dept symposium d gr8 event i cherish till ma death " Cornucopia 08" organised by us solely th a major part of mine in it. but pity on me compromised ma lappy on d same day .

ya i din take care of it as much i did for cornucopia of course thts d fact wat i should accept.
finally ma laptop fell on d road and smash a car rolled over the leather bag.oh ! indeed i saw it frm ma own eyes . tht was a day i felt my failure 2 d core. anywys had a hope tht it s still alive and am nt rite , it faced its death th jus a cost of 3k before dying .

wat shall i do th jus a 3k . thought of servicing it, also wich went in vain.

now its high time to introduce ma frns here .

karthi he was d one identified the mouth out of ma lappy. thnks 2 u da . ya d next known creature is prabu . and the next s sabari , who sat behind me in the vehicle durin the incident.

But d almighty played a lot on tat situation and tht s 'there was a death in ma home on the same day and which one should i feel for . ya of course for the both for having lost one of ma family mate . the next one was as 2 how to overcome this laptop problem .

Me returned 2 cbe , met ma frns n discussed on this , really i din know wat has 2 be done . i cannot convey or reveal it in my home too. tht was really very annoying at all.

wat next ? . sit n decide as wat 2 carry on bcos the next tym i go home should have the lappy th me. how 2 make it happen . i had put the same to the ears of viki , ma most treasured frn . nobody depressed me n tht was d only medicine i had , really am lucky 2 have such frns in ma life time.

simultaneously , had said 2 some of school frns wer they 2 ll help me out. atlast decided 2 get a new laptop giving this one back . this one served only 3k and i need an amount of 29,000 to make this dream come true.

VIGNESH AND PRABU


THEN IT WAS DECIDED AND A TIMELINE WAS FIXED FOR US TO GET THE NEW ONE . MA LAPTOP FELL DOWN ON "FEB 22" AND THE DEAD LINE WAS " MARCH 22" .

bit difficult,since we took up this 2 close it as decided .
started browsing al d ways 2 make a money of 29k.
even i din disclose it to ma room mate hannah and one day after a weeks time revealed her and the only thing she had was a great shock and a feeling tht she could not help me by anyway, wat shall she do on it. then after two days conveyed d same to 'praba n daran .

everybody started 2 do something and make that amount somehow . those days were really a hell for me daily and ma usual activities wer as usual . wat to do .

the first amount was from my school frn Syed thro a courier , sum of 1000 rs.
next two of ma school frns haripriya n Gokila , a sum of 1100 rs. they al really felt tht they wer able 2 afford only this much . but not me , i had oly tears 2 thank them.

i would have spoken th atleast a 100 persons for this . day by day my hope went down and my frns doesnt wan to let me down . karthi browsed all his contacts , prabu was trying his own way, viki was arranging the same .
he put aside initially 3000 rs , karthis school frn a 1000 . now its jus 5000 rs of 29000.
still more to go . wan a bulk one .

sabari

shared the major from her school frns , really thnks 2 them frm d heart and thts really a bulk amount 7000 rs .

how much its now =13000.

thn ma most deserved staff tamilselvi mam spared amount of 3000 rs. wat have i done to her i don know . but she helped . oly then i came 2 know the real affection of her . really love you loads mam. love you lots \.

rchd 16000.

still to travel.
prabs n dharan
one fine day , myself n praba wer discussing as to whom 2 ask . she suddenly gave an idea of seeking our ethics staff " JOSEPH PRABAKAR WILLIAMS" . hiyo at an outset i cried out on his answer to my help.

he said " unakku pannama yaarukku panna poren" . am sure tht i don know whether am worth tat much 2 him.

he told
"my amount will not be a single digit count " .. wat else to write here .. shall i pour ma tears over .

initially he gave an amount of rs 5000 .

it is now 21000.

he promised 2 give still more the same amount .

then i approached one of col senior n thts gokulnath and in a sudden he helped me out with a 1000 rs which also i din expect .

rchd 22000.

praba s frn arranged for a 1000 rs .. hearty thnks 2 you dear . hw m gonna return you all back al these love and affection.
hannah
al d way was th me in watever i started . nobody can serve this much of moral support without which i woluld have not been normal.

now its 23000.

the day has come nearer and its now march 18. jus four days to go . praba tried with vishnu for a sum and he too accepted .

viki , wat have i done to you da , nothing but again he spared another 2000 from some of his frns .no words to say . this was on march 22 .

its now i have 25000 on the deadline day afternoon 12.00pm.

spoke th joseph sir again and really i was shocked hearing from him tat he ll compensate th some broker his golden ring and spare me the remaining amount . it was a plain no from me .

time is going . it s 2pm. tht same day was the NSS Camp inauguration which we should attend.went ter also . it s late 5 pm . we all got scared whether can we achieve it or not.

then a cal from vishnu to praba to come n collect the amount of 2000 from him . somehow managed to spare a vehicle from the spot , me n praba got tat sum also.

now it is 27000 by 6.00pm.

function got over and we sat in karthis home counting all d cash . karthis mom spared her part also atlast it was a deficit of 3000 . josph sir promised 2 give it also .

we four ,me,karthi,prabu and praba started 2 compusoft .went ter and then a cal from joseph sir

prabu went and collected d cash and it was late 8.00 pm wen we arrived the great lot of 32000 along th the old ones cash .

it was a great blast of cry in the shop after getting it .

ATLAST IT HAPPENED . GOT A NEW ONE AT THE END . ON MA VIEW ITS AN ADVENTUIRE OF FRIENDSHIP,TRUE FRIENDSHIP.

everyone should accept this .
i informed first 2 sabari n viki and continuosly 2 everyone who wer al d gems on this . jus gave a message to joseph sir as i was not able to spk th him out of excitation.

WAT ELSE ????

can never forget this till ma death . if anyone asks me wat is friendship ," I WILL SHOW MY FRIENDS AND MEAN IT THAT THEY ARE THE SYNONYMS OF TRUE AFFECTION "

ya damn sure and no more words to explain it ..... all of you . will never miss you dears and no life without you .


continues.....

the continuation is nothing but the lifelong frnship tht we still possess and the creature who got introduced to me very later but rendered his most care is hari krishna.... and on his part served me the best and no words to xplain still..

al d way being proud of the treasured friendship , we form thus the gr8 example hoping to be together al d while .


12 comments:

  1. A true example of friendship, I wonder If I could ever get such a support. The main thing is no one can say NO to you ka. Am sad that I couldn help you(didn come to know even). I miss u all seniors. V'll never have better seniors than u ppl.

    The post is wonderful, made me cling on to my seat till I finished reading the whole post.

    Kudos to u n ur friends(my seniors).

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  2. This proves Friends can substitute all our relations and we can share anything and everything with a friend with the trust that he/she will get us out of trouble...

    Hats off to all those who lent their helping hand to u... A big Salute !!!!

    I only feel unlucky tat I dint know and consequently, I was unable to offer any kind of support (moral & financial)!!

    Anyways, Keep Rocking!!! Long live all ur friendships :-) :-)

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  3. hi Nithya,

    Your story of friendship was a great read. It really brings out the bond between you and your friends.Genuine friendship is hard to come by these days.
    One suggestion. Why don't you write using complete words? It sure would make it easy to read for people like me, who don't text message very much.
    Do keep writing.
    Cheers,
    ashwin.

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  4. I am really crying on seeing this since i can't able to help you at that time even when you asked.. Sorry a lot.. Feeling very depressed Nithya.. Once again sorry a lot..

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  5. hi nithi..,
    im really sorry for not sharing ur pain during those days..
    i really didnt know abt d real situation n d troubles which you had faced...
    i didnt expect tat d problem was this much hectic..,
    im sorry alot..
    so hereafter please share urself with ur [(OLD)school frnds(US)] also....,
    take care

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  6. Good to see you here!

    I still remember every moment we spent together for Cornucopia '08. I never knew you were into so much trouble after that. If I could rightly remember, I saw you only after your NSS camp. You were upto something with great tension. I'm pretty sad that I couldn't help you financially.

    Anyways, I always tell you only one phrase:
    "GOOD THINGS WILL HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE"
    For all the pain you had gone through all these years, you deserve success and happiness all through your life.
    All the Best:)

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  7. Hey nithi....
    Touching to see this di...!!!
    None of us can forget this incident in our life...!!!
    This was one of the incidents which made us feel ours is one ofthe most gifted frndship in the world..!!
    Love u guys a lot di..!! nd Im missin u guys even more now..!!!
    Cheers to our ever lasting frndship..!!!! :-) :-)

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    1. Hey sabs......u are absolutely rite and hats off to our frndship. We can boast ourself , we are the best example for frnship to this world and praying god for this frndship to last till our last breath.

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  8. Hi Nithya mam...
    Really heart touched incident mam..
    This is the true friendship...

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  9. Manageru.. �� lucky me �� to hear yu say this on call with the same of level of excitement even after 10 yrs.. "adhuvum andha dog voice la" ��
    Keep writing n Andha terror ah same level ah maintain panunga baa �� Terror Nithya ��

    - Salpi gal ��

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  10. Manageru.. �� lucky me �� to hear yu say this on call with the same of level of excitement even after 10 yrs.. "adhuvum andha dog voice la" ��
    Keep writing n Andha terror ah same level ah maintain panunga baa �� Terror Nithya ��

    - Salpi gal ��

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  11. Nithya didn't know these much things happened in your life...it s really inspiring...adverse situations happen in lyf not to shake us but to make us strong and to know the true value of ppl around us..u r very lucky to have such a supportive fnds circle..ur fnds r amazing���� I thought only in flim we can see such a type of fndship but can feel the essence of true fndship through ur writing...by God's grace u ll have all success in lyf dear..stay strong my dear gal�� loads of ♥️♥️ to u hon...

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